DEAR DEIDRE I have no complaints with our hot sex life but my fiancé is moody and difficult to live with

Author : jinkumoni

Publish Date : 2021-01-04 20:12:04

I am 42, he’s 44 and we met a year and a half ago. It felt wonderful to find love again after being single for many years.

We just clicked from the day we met and it has been a whirlwind romance.

He proposed to me on my birthday three months ago and we set the date for the wedding.

I have two boys aged 12 and eight. We live in my house and my fiancé stays at weekends. He spent Christmas and New Year with us and, to be honest, it was disappointing.

He likes to get his own way and everything has to be immaculate. I am much more laid back.

I like a clean house, but don’t worry about a bit of untidiness.
Listen to your gut instinct, otherwise you could end up in an unhappy marriage and with troubled children. Tell your fiancé exactly how you are feeling and hear what he has to say.

You both should discuss what improvements you need in your relationship.

He will know Christmas was a tense time for you all.

You can’t commit to a marriage half-heartedly. If you are uncertain about any aspect of marrying this man, postpone the wedding and give yourselves more time.

If you are going to create a happy family together then you both need to make compromises.

My e-leaflet called Looking After Your Relationship will help you communicate to one another what you really want.

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DEAR DEIDRE I have no complaints with our hot sex life but my fiancé is moody and difficult to live with

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