What Does it Mean When Your Boyfriend Stops Calling You? Know This Before Its Too Late
When your otherwise very responsive boyfriend suddenly stops calling you or texting you for no plausible reason, you feel hurt, ignored and angry. If the calls have tapered off gradually then you will not notice it unless he stops completely. You begin to have doubts and it is possible that you will overreact and spoil the already strained relationship.
Here are seven possible reasons why he is not calling you.
You may have insisted on him calling you at least 6 times a day and it has got to a point that he feels you are regimenting him unnecessarily. This is one reason why relationships sour.
Something you did or said has touched a raw nerve and instead of having a showdown he is sensible enough to let thing cool down. Well, in this case you have to introspect and find the real reason and if possible send him an apology via text. If his anger has mellowed he will call you.
The mobile phone is basically like a leash which people in authority use to keep a check on their employees, lovers, husbands, partners and children. Now this gets to a point where an open rebellion is all but natural. If this is the case then the aggrieved party either refuses to take the call or does not call back.
It could be that your boyfriend is training hard for that athletic meet or studying hard for the exams or your lover is busy preparing for his presentation. If that is the case he does not want any thing to disturb his chain of thoughts and hence he is not calling you. Find out the reason and instead of getting angry and hurt support him in his endeavor.
Well, this could also be one reason why he is not calling you as often as he would like to. You need to call up and check with him. If he speaks with you when you call and also meets you, but just does not call then this could be the reason.
Before he totally breaks up he will probably prepare the ground for the eventual parting. And one way to do it is by reducing his calls. If the frequency is tapering and you realize that the warmth and affection is missing in his conversation then he is planning to dump you. This is an emergency situation and you will have to do something to stop it.
If you did not take the cues seriously and neglected the relationship and now find that none of the above situation is a reason for him not calling you then you can assume that the inevitable has happened and he has dumped you. However, take heart there are ways to lure him back.
When your otherwise very responsive boyfriend suddenly stops calling you or texting you for no plausible reason, you feel hurt, ignored and angry. If the calls have tapered off gradually then you will not notice it unless he stops completely. You begin to have doubts and it is possible that you will overreact and spoil the already strained relationship.
Here are seven possible reasons why he is not calling you.
You may have insisted on him calling you at least 6 times a day and it has got to a point that he feels you are regimenting him unnecessarily. This is one reason why relationships sour.
Something you did or said has touched a raw nerve and instead of having a showdown he is sensible enough to let thing cool down. Well, in this case you have to introspect and find the real reason and if possible send him an apology via text. If his anger has mellowed he will call you.
The mobile phone is basically like a leash which people in authority use to keep a check on their employees, lovers, husbands, partners and children. Now this gets to a point where an open rebellion is all but natural. If this is the case then the aggrieved party either refuses to take the call or does not call back.
It could be that your boyfriend is training hard for that athletic meet or studying hard for the exams or your lover is busy preparing for his presentation. If that is the case he does not want any thing to disturb his chain of thoughts and hence he is not calling you. Find out the reason and instead of getting angry and hurt support him in his endeavor.
Well, this could also be one reason why he is not calling you as often as he would like to. You need to call up and check with him. If he speaks with you when you call and also meets you, but just does not call then this could be the reason.
Before he totally breaks up he will probably prepare the ground for the eventual parting. And one way to do it is by reducing his calls. If the frequency is tapering and you realize that the warmth and affection is missing in his conversation then he is planning to dump you. This is an emergency situation and you will have to do something to stop it.
If you did not take the cues seriously and neglected the relationship and now find that none of the above situation is a reason for him not calling you then you can assume that the inevitable has happened and he has dumped you. However, take heart there are ways to lure him back.