20 Moms Confess What They Wish Their Partners in the Bedroom

There is something so special and safe about having sex with a long-term partner. There's been time to figure out what works and what doesn't when it comes to having orgasms, and familiarity can be comfortable. But although moms might enjoy having a reliable sex life, that doesn't mean they aren't still up for some adventure too!

We talked to 20 moms and, after agreeing to keep their identities confidential, asked them to confess the one thing they really wish their partner would be willing to try at least once in the bedroom. From the sweet to the really kinky (we see you #7!), consider this an inspiration list for any mom who is looking for a little extra spice!

The Little Pill
"My husband had some medical issues that can result in some erectile issues too. His doctor gave him a prescription for a medication to help that and he refuses to get it filled. I wish he'd try just popping the little pill once to see if it worked. It would help BOTH of us have a less stressful time in bed, I think."

Cosplay Fun
"We're both gigantic nerds and we've just been getting more into doing cosplay, based on some characters we like from different sci-fi books and shows. But for some reason, we haven't really transitioned any of that dress-up to the bedroom, which seems like it could be fun. I think we're both awkward about saying when we want to try new things though."

A Little Less Vanilla
"It's kind of embarrassing but we are pretty vanilla in the bedroom. Neither of us had a lot of experience before we got together and we've got a kind of basic routine going. I'd like to just be a little less vanilla, like maybe try something like wearing a mask or something during sex."

Take it Outside
"This is kind of the opposite of 'in bed,' but I have been trying to talk my wife into getting frisky out in nature. I'd like to turn one of our weekend hikes into something a little more sexy. I just have to help her get over her fear of ticks and mosquitos!"

Pregnant Sex
"This is kinda depressing, but I'm pregnant with my first baby and my husband hasn't wanted to have sex since I started showing. He's worried about hurting the baby, no matter how many times I tell him that isn't an issue. But I need him to get over it and at least try! This mama has needs."

Photo Shoot
"I think it would be fun to do a sexy photo shoot with my husband as a photographer but I'm a little afraid to bring it up. I mentioned boudoir photos once and he seemed into the idea, so I think he'd be into it, I just need to drink a glass or two of wine and get up the courage to bring it up."

Step It Up a Notch
"So, we're already pretty kinky, I guess, compared to a lot of people, but I still have a few things on list I want to try. I'd like to try pegging (no, I'm not explaining that if you don't know!) and some more aggressive BDSM stuff. I'm into exploring my dominant side right now."

Tub Time for Two
"We just moved into a house with a big a-- bathtub and I really want to try sex in there. My husband isn't on board yet. He says he thinks it will be too awkward but I think there could be fun in at least trying something new. If it sucks, at least we can laugh about it later!"

Oral, Please
"This is low-key embarrassing to admit, but my husband has never gone down on me. He's actually never performed oral sex ever. He was raised super religious and still has some hang-ups from growing up thinking sex was like dirty or something. I wish he would just try once. I miss it!"

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Mix It Up More
"Missionary, doggie, or me on top — those are the three positions we cycle through every time. The old standards work, I always have a climax, but I'd like to mix it up a little and just try some new positions, at least once or twice. Maybe standing? Something like that could be fun!"

Condoms for a Change
"We've never used condoms. I've either been on the pill or we've been trying to get pregnant. I'm really tired of being on hormonal birth control, so I'd like to give condoms a try until he's ready to get the snip snip. I'd like to at least try it once and see if it is sustainable for us so I can give my body a break."

Fresh Air Fun
"We live on the 17th story of an apartment building and we have a little balcony off of our bedroom. I'd like to have sex either on the balcony or in bed, but with the balacony doors open. I think feeling the air and being sort of public but not really public would be kind of fun. My husband isn't on board yet, but I'm working on it!"

Back Door Time
"I feel like it used be that anal was considered pretty kinky but now it seems like a thing that most couples have tried at least once (or at least my friends have, but maybe they are all perverts?). We still haven't tried it but I feel like we should at least once, right?"

Tantric Trial
"With three little kids, I feel like we are always having super quick sex during nap time or late at night when we are both so tired. I'd like to try dedicating an entire afternoon to having sex and doing it slow and like tantric style. We took a class on that when we were on our honeymoon but have never really done it."

Swinging
"I've always been intrigued by the idea of sex swings but I am way too cheap to actually buy one or figure out how to hang it up in our tiny 1000-square-foot house. But lately I've been wondering if we can rig up a hammock and sort of use it like a sex swing? Could be fun to try, if I can get my husband on board."

Buzz Buzz
"We still haven't really incorporated toys into our sex life. I use a vibrator on my own but I think my husband is shy about figuring out how it could work as a together thing. But I'd like to at least try and see if we can find a way that doesn't feel intimidating to him."

Playing Footsie
"Based on my husband's browser history (yes, I snoop at that sometimes), I suspect he has a bit of a foot fetish that he's never talked to me about it. I hope he does, because I'd be willing to explore that with him, at least to see if it is something that we're both into. I'm just waiting at this point to see if he brings it up."

Watch Together
"I look at porn sometimes and I know my husband does too, but we've never looked at it together or really talked about what kinds of things we like to watch. I think it could be good to explore that together and see if there are things that we see that we might want to try."

420 Frisky
"Weed was recently legalized in our state, so I'm kind of curious to try having sex while high. My husband is SO anti-smoking (he's a marathon runner, so I get it) but maybe we could try some edibles or something? It seems worth trying at least once."

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Out of the Bedroom
"We're moving into a new house soon and I want to do the whole 'christen every room' thing but my husband both thinks its kind of cheesy and is weirded out by the idea of having sex in the baby's room. I kind of get it but I also think it is fun to mix it up and get outside of the bedroom."