Chloe X Halle — Ungodly Hour: You keep a spreadsheet with the birth charts of everyone you’ve ever spoken to and know to

Sometimes my daughter will tell me (repeating back what we’ve told her), “babies can’t tell us what they want so they cry.” Are adults so different? We know lots of words, but do we know what we need? Are our needs really so different from a child’s? Don’t we all just need food, love, and care?,Sometimes my son will be screaming for some toy and I’ll try to seriously talk to him about his attitude. I’ll sternly count to ten and say “you can’t always have what you want.” Trying to mold character. Then my wife comes in. “He’s just tired. Put him to bed.” And she’s right. His want for that particular dinosaur was not his need. He needed rest. I was missing the forest for the screams.,Rina Sawayama — SAWAYAMA: Astrology is fake, the only chart that matters is your Backstreet Boys/Spice Girls/Britney Spears eras. You are Kevin sun, Posh moon, Blackout rising.,Even among adults, a fight is rarely what it seems. A fight is a feeling, a feeling of not being heard, not being seen, not being tended to. And a feeling comes from a body, a body that may have a lot of other stuff going on. So, like a Doctor checking blood pressure before anything, you should check your inner child first. Are you hungry? Are you sleepy? Need to poo-poo? Then you can move on to the adult.,Harder, of course, is the need for love. This cannot be resolved with words. It often just takes time. I’ve found the love bank is a good metaphor for this. Yes, your card got declined over chewing loudly (WTF, normal loud), but it’s really because you’ve been taking each other for granted for weeks. That’s not going to get solved overnight. You can commit to spending time together, and then sleep on it.,The lines on top of bars are called error bars and they indicate the level of uncertainty about the estimation. We are more certain about the estimation on 0 children than the estimation on 2 children.,The concept of grouping visualizations with similar functionalities make it easier to learn the library. For instance, different visualizations on distributions can be created with the displot functon by changing the kind parameter.,2D histogram provides an overview of how two variables change concurrently. The darker regions contain more data points. We can say most people are in the lower region of both ‘AmountSpent’ and ‘Salary’ columns.,What I learned after having children is that every outburst is not what it seems. Every complaint is not the problem. Sometimes we’re talking about wants but our real problem is needs.,The concept of grouping visualizations with similar functionalities make it easier to learn the library. For instance, different visualizations on distributions can be created with the displot functon by changing the kind parameter.,Early in our marriage (when we fought more) we tried to talk everything out before bed and I’d just end up nodding off in the middle of some serious disclosure. We’d just end up fighting and sleep deprived.,2D histograms combine 2 different histograms on a grid (x-axis and y-axis). Thus, we are able to visualize the density of overlaps or concurrence. In other words, we visualize the distribution of a pair of variables.,Git has different command categories — 13 to be precise — each category deals with a specific aspect of version control. For example, init and clone are under the create a project category. Where pull and pull are updating the project category, and commit is used for basic snapshotting.,The 1975 — Notes on a Conditional Form: People liked you because you were insufferable yet so aware of it, then you became too aware of it, and now you’re just insufferable. (You probably think the same thing about these lists; they are much better on TIkTok anyway. “Medium is now an obsolete medium, kinda mad, innit?”, you have definitely said to impress someone regardless of accuracy.),For the love of God, if you’re sleepy just go to bed. The human brain is useless when tired, you need to turn it off and on again. Tell your partner you love them and go to bed. If you’re the hangry type, eat something.