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Your partner has a history of letting you down or making poor choices, which feeds your insecurity within the relationship. This may also be your own issue, borne of difficult experiences in your past. A lot of people have difficulty with trust— if that’s you, it’s worth working on so you don’t sabotage a potentially great relationship.

That’s fine for movies, but it can be harder to accept this for a big work project or a personal project that you feel the world expects. That’s why you have to take a hard look at yourself as you really are, not (just) as you wish to be. Maybe you don’t actually want to talk with your boss about that next promotion; you’re happy with what you’ve got right now. Maybe you just don’t want to research what funds or stocks you should hold in your 401(k). I can tell you it’s painless and important, but if you keep bumping it forward, you probably don’t agree.

The balance of power tips in one direction or it swings back and forth so you’re never quite sure where you are — or what’s going on. A toxic partner is typically controlling, either in obvious, dominating ways or through passive-aggressive, threatening, guilt-inducing means. They’ll always want their own way. If you’re with a toxic person, you’ll feel insecure, pressured to do things you may not want to do and constantly as though you’re dancing to someone else’s drum.

So we decided she should move this speculative work to first thing Monday morning. This was her best, most high-energy time. The week’s emergencies had yet to arise. Her husband promised to take the kids to school so she could get to her desk early. She began researching pitches on Monday morning, and within the first few weeks, she’d written a pitch that became a widely read article that attracted several agents hoping to represent the resulting book proposal, which then became a book. To be clear: Lewis didn’t magically become a more motivated person. She was always motivated. It’s just that her old schedule didn’t support her goals. Her new schedule did.

But it’s worth unpacking the difference because it clarifies why you were in a no-win situation — and adds to your knowledge of what’s healthy (and what’s not) in relationships.

No matter what, you know your partner to be in your corner with a hug, a coffee, a kind word. When you’re spinning out over something, they’ll help you see the reality of the situation. And they can count on you — always.

You feel trapped, stuck. You feel like your relationship is limiting your life. You’re not happy with your partner — and they’re not with you. You both want to change things about the other so the relationship is going nowhere — fast.

When you need support you can never be sure your partner will be there for you. Often, they’re not. Or they might be — as long as they don’t have something bigger going on themselves.

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You feel safe — physically, sexually and emotionally. You don’t feel pressured to do things their way. You trust your partner with the Big Stuff and to stick to the agreements you have in your relationship around sex, money, kids, porn, alcohol/substance use, health issues and the like. You trust them to listen to your point of view. And they know you’ll listen (and hear) theirs.

The upside of acknowledging that you aren’t going to do something is that then you can accommodate this truth. You just have HR put you in the default target-date fund, which is infinitely better than dithering and never investing. Throw yourself into your current responsibilities and the things you really are motivated to work on rather than burning brainpower worrying about ones you don’t want.

The upside of acknowledging that you aren’t going to do something is that then you can accommodate this truth. You just have HR put you in the default target-date fund, which is infinitely better than dithering and never investing. Throw yourself into your current responsibilities and the things you really are motivated to work on rather than burning brainpower worrying about ones you don’t want.

You do EVERYTHING together. You’re totally immersed in the relationship, neglectful of old friends and important relationships. You let go of your own interests/friends in favour of doing everything your partner does and, slowly, you lose your sense of self which lands you in a co-dependent relationship. Co-dependence can also develop as you wrestle with a partner’s addictions, mental health or other issues. But, no matter where it came from, planning your life entirely around another is not healthy.

There’s a balance to the relationship. You’re not controlling your partner — nor are you having your strings pulled. The number one clue is that you’re NOT scared of your partner, you’re not always worrying about what mood they’ll be in. You don’t feel a knot of anxiety in your stomach when you see them coming: you’re relaxed and happy to see them.

You keep your boundaries; you insist on having time to yourself (even if time is in short supply). You see your own friends, you stay true to your favourite activities and you’re not afraid to do things alone. Importantly, your partner encourages you to do so.