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Talking about sex is never easy, and it is further complicated because different aged children will need different information. But inventing magical birds that deliver babies is never the solution. Lies imply that there is something to cover up . . . something shameful.

Because if you are vague about death, your child may wait for the deceased to return. Even worse, if you are not truthful about death, your child won’t trust the permanence of the living. In other words, they may worry that other loved ones will disappear.

We live in a culture that condemns failing. But when we teach our children that all they need to succeed is to try harder, they can grow up to be stubborn adults who never quit the things they should quit.

My daughter is old enough to understand sarcasm, but there was truth in my jest. Children need to learn sexual anatomy for safety reasons — it will help them tell an adult if they are ever violated. Most children will avoid a subject if they lack the vocabulary to discuss it.

Unfortunately, when a child is lied to, they enter a space of cognitive dissonance. Their instincts are telling them one truth, and an adult is telling them something very different.

It takes vulnerability and self-awareness to know when you have failed. And it’s hard to “dare greatly” and have the courage to try something new if you feel robbed of the reward you felt you were entitled to. It’s why so many people are shackled to a victim mentality.

I am guilty of this one. When our cat had cancer, I told my daughter that mommy and daddy had to put the cat “to sleep.” At the time, my daughter was five, so she immediately connected “sleep” with never waking up again. Weeks of nightmares followed.

But this is the problem with euphemisms. Young children often think in very literal terms. Most grief experts recommend giving children concrete information about death and then expecting lots of questions to follow.

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Study after study has found higher sexual education also leads to lower rates of teen pregnancy. And the sobering statistics paint a terrifying picture for what they are up against — 1 in 4 teen girls today have an STD.

Having difficult conversations is one of our hardest jobs as parents. We want to protect our children from the evils of the world, but we also don’t want to send them into battle without a sharp sword.

Then once the lie is exposed, your child suffers. But if you are the source of that lie, they will suffer alone. They won’t reach out to you because you are the liar. And they may even piece together a narrative with a very cynical conclusion— no one can be trusted.

A better option — instead of telling kids to try harder, tell them to fail smarter. Because it’s our failures that teach us how to start again and apply the lessons learned.

Remember that grief is a process, and a child goes through the same process as an adult. This means there will be days of anger, bargaining, or simply not accepting the truth. Expect to keep reinforcing that death means this person or pet is not coming back.