You can be intentional about what you want without being rude, disrespectful, or crossing over into other people’s bound

Here’s what happens to guys who get in the friend zone. They’re attracted to a woman. But, instead of making it known that they want to pursue a romantic relationship, e.g., just ask her out, they spend time with her under the guise of friendship and try to slowly ease their way into a romantic relationship over a long period of time.

The opposite of a nice guy is simply a man who’s honest about his intentions. You don’t have to be aggressive or pushy about it. You just have to be honest. If you want to ask someone out, ask them out. If you want a raise, ask for a raise. Want to start a business? Start the damn business.

When in a relationship, a nice guy forgoes his own needs to try to please his partner, but this creates problems because people can subconsciously feel you compromising who you are for their benefit. And no matter how nice the deeds themselves are, the underlying motivation is unattractive.

This speaks to the way people interact with the world in general. The underlying ‘nice guy’ energy isn’t just exclusive to men. People spend their lives not going for what they want, not asking for what they want, not being intentional about what they want.

In general, people-pleasing behavior is a sign of neediness. Neediness repels everyone, not just women. Does this mean that you should never compromise? No. Does this mean you shouldn’t highlight the best parts of yourself to be attractive? Of course not.

Again, it creates that weird energy — the feeling you have to ‘butter them up’ before asking them out. Then, if a woman doesn’t want to have that type of relationship, which is her right, the nice guy will get upset and claim that she somehow wasted his time.

You put your intentions out there and you get a ‘yes’ or ‘no’ answer back. Again, you live with that answer. Not woman is going to like you. Your boss might not give you that raise. You can start a business and fail. Doesn’t matter.

It’s funny. You’re more likely to get what you want in life if you stop fixating on it and trying to finagle your way into getting it. “It” could be a date, a career, an outcome, whatever.

Women don’t put men in the friend zone. Men put themselves in the friendzone, again, by being manipulative and disingenuous. That manipulative and disingenuous energy is the core problem ‘nice guys’ have.

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You see the theme here. The nice guy isn’t confident in himself the way he already is. Ironically, the number one way to kill a woman’s attraction toward you is to fundamentally change who you are to try to please her or get her to like you.

Long story short, I didn’t get the girl. Even Barack Obama said that in college, he tried to read the same books and philosophers as the women students, so he could date them.

It means that you need to find the best intersection between the things you’re interested in, your values, and your personality with the people you want to attract or bring to your cause. This is how dating works. It’s how getting anyone into your life works. It’s how business, sales, and even getting fans for your content works.

Back in college, this woman I liked mentioned that she liked fishing. Also, she liked listening to these weird indie bands. Honestly, the music was awful. But I found myself listening to random 10-minute songs like “The Mariners Revenge Song” by the Decemberists. I took up fishing (which ended up being a hobby I loved).

So the world puts them in the ‘friend zone.’ Their life purpose puts them in the ‘friend zone.’ You can’t expect to never give a sincere try for a goal and have it just fall into your lap somehow.